JOHN JAY H.S. "CLASS OF 1970"

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The Continuing Adventures of the 'Original' Mighty Mustangs
Class of 1969 - Class of 1970 - Class of 1971
JOHN JAY HIGH SCHOOL
SAN ANTONIO, TEXAS, U.S.A

THE FRIGGIN', E-MAIL THAT REALLY FRIGGIN' TICKED ME OFF!!!

The person who sent the e-mail to me and "delivered the shot that was heard around the Mustang Alumni world" shall remain nameless. His name is not important, nor is he, but I will tell you that he was a 1970 graduate. What is important is his damn attitude. I sent part of the text of his e-mail to 500+ classmates, just to illustrate what I have to put up with on more occasions that you might imagine. Considering that I have enough to deal with, at this time in my life, I couldn't just ignore this. I had to vent my anger, share my disgust and just "get it out of my system." Thanks for letting me do that. I appreciate the tremendous amount of e-mails from classmates, the world over, who sent me their opinion of this sad individual who seeks to defame and ridicule YOU and me, those of us who share wonderful memories of our days at John Jay. I am over my anger now, I have nothing but pity for him. It must be a heavy burden to go through life being the person he is. --- Dennis M. DuPriest '70

HERE'S THE EXACT FRIGGIN' TEXT OF THE FRIGGIN' OFFENDING PORTION OF HIS FRIGGIN' E-MAIL TO ME...

"Dennis: I am requesting that you remove my email address from your account both from work, as well as, home. I have also discussed this with other John Jay students that graduated with us and we agree that the news we hear is all about the same folks involved with certain clicks at school. And this is 100% of the time." (From someone in the "Class of 1970" and who doesn't know how to spell "clique.")

HERE'S SOME FRIGGIN' RESPONSES FROM MUSTANGS TO THAT FRIGGIN' E-MAIL...
(These e-mails are edited only for some language, clarity or personal information to me. There's no way I could show all of them, so I took a cross-section to show. I tried to use as many '69-'70-'71 , as I could, to show this person, how wrong he is. His high school contemporaries have set him straight! Also, I am not using anyone's name. It's my choice. No one asked me to be anonymous. Boy, I thought I was friggin' mad. Wait till you read some of these! Heck, some of the saltiest language came from GIRLS! LOL Thanks to all who took the time to write!)

"Unfriggin' believable! I agree that you don't need this crap. Do you know this person? Sounds like he never grew up! Don't take it personally -- this is HIS problem, not yours. Continue to take good care of yourself. Big hugs!" (1972)

"Hey Bro' ... I've been outta touch for awhile, getting prepared to be off work for about 6 weeks from more surgery. Just read your FRIGGIN e-mail about the individual expressing his wanting to be dropped from the e-mail list. Just do it, and don't even give it a second thought. It's not worth it! I just looked over the responses on this page and the support you have recieved as a result of that message. You gotta know and have to realize that you have many friends that do appreciate your efforts. Just take a look at that list once again. If these individuals didn't appreciate your friendship and your efforts, they wouldn't have bothered to respond to your e-mail. You have touched a lot of lives, even those people that you didn't know back in the 60's and 70's. Hell, I didn't even know you or most of the guys and gals back then, but I cherish the friendships now, and only realize what I missed out on back then. I never (ever) thought about being in any kind of clique, never would......not for me. You know that. If, this "LUSUS NATURAE" (freak of nature) thinks of this group of friends as a clique, then I only have one thing to say on behalf of the entire group......"MENTULAM SUGERE CUPIS!!!" You are the man! Keep up the good work on the web site and the information you provide and, even more importantly, (I'm sure everyone would agree), your health issues and great strides you have accomplished on your weight loss. We're all proud of ya', Dennis. See ya Bro'. " (1970)

“Dennis, All the rest of us know that is BULLS**T. Don't let the bastards get you down. We (99.99%) all appreciate all of your time and efforts keeping us up to date. We love you, Dennis. Keep up all the good work. Don't get your BP up. As the guy I know always says. "Love is all around"." (1970)

“To whoever wrote that e-mail to Dennis.... Get a life. If you want to participate, we'll include you, too. Dennis talks about the people who actually interact with each other, who keep in touch, and that's all. We outgrew "clicks" [sic] decades ago. Geesh. Dennis, don't let those kind of people get to you. We all (and I'm sure I speak for the VAST majority) love ya'!” (1971)

"Hi Dennis, I haven't been in touch with you for a while, but I always read what is on the web site, and I'm always happy to get you emails. The person that asked to have his email address removed obviously has issues. I never considered myself as being in the clique in high school. I don't even know if you really remembered me when I sent my first email to you, even though you said you did. But you always posted anything I sent to you, and always answered my emails. You couldn't have been nicer to my sisters and I when we attended the reunion in 2001. It was great seeing all the people that I went to high school with, even if 2/3 of them didn't remember me. You have always taken the time to include ANYONE that shares any information with you, good or bad. Please don't let one narrow minded person stress you out that way. Just know that 99.99% of Jay's Classmates love you for all that you do, and for keeping us all connected. I hope venting your anger, and getting it out of your system helped, but please don't let people like that get to you. Your health is much too important to give people, like that guy who wrote the email, the satisfaction of knowing he got you "ticked off". Keep up the good job with your recovery. Congratulations on the weight loss!! Keep on walking on the treadmill, or wherever you can, and Keep the Flame going!!! You are in my thoughts and prayers." (1971)

"Dennis my good man and friend for life, That nimrod, who wrote the e-mail to you, must feel so left out because he hasn’t seen his own name mentioned in your e-mail updates or on your website. Obviously, he’s never contributed in any way to this effort, whether by writing to you or offering financial support. I know that you would share anything he had submitted with us. Dennis, I understand your feeling's about this jerk and his display of ignorance. It’s obvioys that he’s on the “outside looking in” because he’s chosen to be. You go to great lengths to include EVERYONE in what you do, Hell, he was on your e-mail list wasn’t he??? There are no cliques or “clicks” as he ignorantly said. We (true Mustangs) are "bigger" than that. I see by readin the website and your e-mail list web page, that you’ve have taken in all the grad years of 1969-83, of our fellow classmates, Naturally, we are not always "in the know" about everyone. (Something to keep in mind, uhmmm, a 100 years from now, as you continue this stuff!) LOL This wayward alumni should have his name removed, but only once he understands that the problem lies with HIMSELF, and not you. Let me talk or have a "wall-to-wall counseling session" with him. I’m sure I can help him (or MAKE him) see the light!” (1970)

"Dennis... I guess you just have to get us "pissed off" to get us to respond to an email! Next reunion, think of a creative way to get us to respond? Find a creative way to piss us off and then say "Congratulations... you just signed up for the reunion... see you there and send us a check for $100.00!" LOL I Just can't believe the responses to this. It's gotta make you feel like you make a difference, cuz you SURE DO! Thanks, again!" (1970)

“Dear Dennis: After reading your last email, I was saddened that someone would voice such a thing about the web site and e-mails, you work so hard to keep us all informed You relay information about a time and people of our past, our lives. Just because the story may not be about us meaning my name or their name in particular does not mean that we are not all apart of the story. I commend your willingness to give of yourself, your time and your money to keep this flame going. I pray that you will not let the one voice deter you of the fact that hundreds do enjoy receiving your email. I do enjoy the sharing. Each time I receive an email it takes me back in time even for a brief moment. I am amazed at your willingness to do this project. I do not know of very many, if any, other schools that have such a "Flame Keeper". Please don't stop. I am praying for you daily and for your strength to return.” (1971)

"Hey Dennis, What's up with that? I thought this whole Jay classmate thing was the only click these days? Sounds like someone has some anger issues and is just flat unhappy, or as the young people say, is a hater. I believe you will find 100 times, no, 1000 times more appreciative messages, both in the past and still more to come. You keep on doing what you are doing. If you get more of this stuff let me know, I got your back my friend!!" (1970)

“Dennis, I enjoy all you do. You keep us informed. Wouldn’t you think people have grown up by now! Thanks!” (1978)

“Dennis, It is always good to hear from you. Yes, I don't remember most of the people you talk about, but I am a 1970 JJHS graduate and my short time there is remembered fondly. I was a band person in Mr. Schreiber's band. "We Try Harder" was our motto. God Bless You and our John Jay graduates.” (1970)

“Dennis! Way to go! Keep it up!” (1971)

“Dennis, I guess I did not realize how many "CLICKS", (yeah barely made it out of English also!), that I belonged to in my days at JAY. I can count about 20 now as witnessed to the connections I have made or reestablished over the last 35 years thanks to your web site! I can remember just over a year ago you posting with my permission words about my mothers pending fight with cancer. The words of encouragement that I received from so many classmates that I did not even know as she was facing so much was truly a blessing. Then the words of sympathy at her passing from so many classmates was unbelievable. Just that alone puts you and the work you do above any pidddly-ass bottom feeder.   As far as the individual that sent you the e-mail, I think we are all adult enough and experienced enough to paint the psychological profile of this individual, enough said. Dennis, THE FLAME BURNS BRIGHTLY, thanks to you!” (1970)

“Dear Dennis: Whoever sent you that email, must have a huge complex!! Geez. I am always happy to receive e-mails from you, even IF the news is not always GOOD news. It is how I keep up with the world outside of my immediate family!! We are SO blessed to have you love US enough to do what you do!! Dennis, words cannot express what YOU mean to me.... you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday.   I want you to get healthy so you can be around for a long, long, long time!   I love you.   Keep up the healthy work and keep your mind clear of negative thoughts and people!! Remember, by putting others down, it is a SICK way to make ourselves look/appear to be more important. Thank goodness we don't have that illness.   Just throw that person's comment OVER your shoulder and move forward. In the end, it doesn't matter anyway!!” (1970)

“Congratulations, Dennis, on taking the 'high road!' You wrote ypur e-mail with 'grace' and 'class'! Be proud! While I am speaking of proud, your new 'lifestyle' change is also to be commended! You should take much pride in your weight loss! That is just awesome! Just know that there are many of us praying for your recovery! Keep up the great work, Dennis! Besides, we need you to keep the Mustang "flame" burning brightly!” (1970)

“Dennis, I'm SO glad you've calmed down after that idiotic friggin email. I could almost FEEL that vein popping out on your forehead over the internet! Letters like that mean nothing to those of us who enjoy and look forward to your e-mails, so just forget about it. It was probably just some nerd who never learned to bathe or brush his teeth anyway and still can't get a date. Anyway, here's hoping you're feeling good. Congrats on the weight loss. Keep up the good work.” (1972)

“Dennis, Thanks for all of the good information you pass our way. You are the best! Please DON’T remove me from the list. Sounds like you are doing a fantastic job with your recovery. My prayers and thoughts are with you.” (1971)

"Dennis, Well I gotta' say I did not belong to any of the “clicks” that guy was talking about, heck, I am “Class of 1975’. I hung out with the smokers and freaks, and lettered in basketball my senior year, as a manager, and was basically a type of nerd. I have really appreciated all the e-mails and especially the web site. It is one thing I look at about once a week to help with my longings for home when I am deployed overseas, like I am in Baghdad now. I enjoy hearing and keeping updated on all that is going on. I grew up in Valley Hi and even though I may not have been in the class of a lot of people, I do know many of the names from around the neighborhood and from my older sisters. Dennis, from someone who knows being away from home a lot, what you do and the info you put out is priceless to me.” (1975)

“Dennis, Don't let some killjoy rain on our parade! Perhaps he never heard of an email filter. Keep on getting better, health wise and otherwise.” (1970)

“Dennis, perhaps they DID mean "click" as in, You can delete them with the “click” of your mouse.” (1977)

“Dennis, did he belong to the NURDIE Group? Tell him to eat S**T and DIE!!! (1970)

“Dennis - The only thing surprising to me about that email was that it didn't happen sooner. There are always a-holes out there. I guess most of the ones we graduated with at least had the good sense to ignore you and the rest of us if they didn't like us. But, there's always that one or two who feel a need to jump ugly into everyone else's stuff because their's is so perfect they can't help but spread it around. Remember, non carborundum illigetimatum. That's Latin (or something close to it) for don't let the bastards wear you down.” (1970)

“I think that you do a great job....and am proud of you for it!” (1970)

“I often think of writing you to thank you for all the work you do for us Mustangs--ALL Mustangs--in keeping the website up and arranging all the reunions. The email about the person who wanted their name removed from the list prompted me to put thoughts to words. Thanks so much for all you do. I enjoy hearing about everyone and sometimes sad when it is an obituary but hey we are getting old and death happens. By the way I have been praying for your recovery and am glad that is going well. Hang in there and do that walking. And no more temper tantrums on email. Temper just does not become you. Plus I am sure it is not good for your blood pressure. There are always going to be people whom you can't please so just blow them off. Okay? Good.” (1969)

“Hey Dennis, p**s on "him! I for one enjoy getting news of classmates, although I don't know some of them, it's no ones fault. They are just from another time. You've got my support, as well as many more, you don't need that kind of ungratefulness. Thanks for your hard work. Hope you are feeling better. Take care, bud.” (1969)

“Dennis you are doing a great job. Do not remove me from your email list.” (1973)

"Dennis, I can not help myself, I had to write and encourage you in reference to the e-mail you got from a classmate from '70. I just shook my head when I read the e-mail. "WHATEVER!!" We are WAY out of High School now and it is time to put childlike behavior behind us. I know that if ANYONE sends you information or updates, or news in their lives you would pass it on to all of us on the e-mail address list. If this person has not seen his name or others that he "hung out with" in high school then he did the right thing. He e-mailed you and you passed it on to us all and he made the front page! Problem solved! Dennis remember, NO ONE can please EVERYONE all the time no matter how hard you try. There will always be those that will want to pull others down and take away the happiness. And Jesus also died for who ever this person is that sent you the e-mail. He may not know that yet in his life, but he is worth God's love. I use this a lot when I see someone or meet someone that I would otherwise consider a "LOSER". This helps me to look at this person through different eyes. You are doing a good job and WE ALL count on you to keep us informed of ALL that is going on with ALL the classmates that keep in touch with you or just surf the web site. This is one of your callings. Do not let "ONE" throw you off track. The rest of us need you.Cliques? I have to really laugh at that. Yea for sure, being popular and in cliques in HS really opened doors for me in my life, and helped me at college (for 6 months), and flung opportunities in my face, and made life sooooo dang easy!! NOT!!!!! Oh those four years of HS when we think we are sooo cool and are all that. Don't we all just laugh under our breath at that now? Growing up, and mellowing, and getting wiser, isn't it grand? So there you have it......my all knowing words of wisdom...LOL!! DUH!! My husband and I will be in S.A. at the end of February to visit my mother and take her to Houston to see her sister. If time allows, I will try and stop by and hug you, not mug you! Take care, Dennis. Be the Best and do the Best that you can today, and remember to look up and say "Hello Lord" at least once a day. No one likes to be ignored, not even God! God's Love Grace and Laughter to you.“ (1969)

“Dennis, my apologies for not sending a note of appreciation earlier and more often. In light of the misguided (not to mention rude) email you received, if feel compelled to say THANKS for all you do. MANY of us very much appreciate the time and efforts you put in. I look forward to each email, and while usually silent, I definitely think of you often (Always positive thoughts) and say the prayers of those that ask. Please keep up the good work and Thank you , thank you , THANK YOU!!” (1970)

“Dennis, I’ve been giving this a little thought and have come to the conclusion that the person(s) that wish to be removed from your list (collectively, our list because we are all Mustangs) must be a small group of Harley haters. These people are the type that talk big and act intelligent until they get caught and then cry like a baby, wetting their pants as they cower in the corner waiting to see “ The Master of the jail cell.” These small minded degenerates have carried a hate and a jealousy for you and other classmates (that enjoy the news presented by you) for so long that they have no other way to express themselves. They attack the source of their hatred without realizing that the source is themselves. By all means remove these people. Evidently, they have neither the mental capacity nor inclination to enter into a healthy discussion of shared ideals nor the means to express them other than “you’re stupid, your friends are stupid. I guess what I’m trying to say is: “Stay the course, keep on walking, watch the diet and don’t let idiots raise the blood pressure.” Here’s an ideal, let’s start a Heart Attack “Click” and invite the idiots to it. They can be the non-survivors!” (1970)

“Dennis, Don't even bother worrying about the few unhappy and angry people. The majority of us appreciate the link with the past that you have graciously and unselfishly been providing us with for the past few decades. As you've probably already learned... "No good deed goes unpunished ". This is a small world and life is too short. We're all depending on you to out live all of us and keep us together ....... So, damn it, Keep up the good work !!” (1970)

"Hey Dennis, DON'T remove my Friggin Name from your list, LMAO. Some people are so petty, even after all these years. Calm down, don't go having a heart attack over this crap. At least you had the common decency not to mention the writer by name. ‘Clique’ ... that's the sound of being removed from your e-mailing list...hahaha.... or is it CLICK! Whatever, its all the same result. Have a good day, buddy.” (1970)

“Dennis, WOW! Go and give em some Hell. I think that idiot deserved that one but don't go a snappin’ at me. I would like to be removed from your Email list of updates as well. I am a graduate from '79 and I think my sister (class of '72) put me on your list for some reason or another and 99.9% of the time I don't even know who you "old farts" are. Take it easy I am just kiddin' with ya'’ but go ahead and remove me. Don't worry about about the dead beats in life and keep up the good work. I am sure there is a whole hell of a lot of people who do appreciate the things you are doing.” (1979)

“My Dear Dennis, Oh, my goodness! Whoever wrote that email, please pass this along to them... I am proud to have gone to John Jay High School, even though I move to California one year before I graduated and finished my education out here, I still consider John Jay my High School. And for some people to still be living with such petty insecurities is a very sad thing. I was not a part of a "clique" at John Jay, but that should not make any one not care or be concerned with people we knew and spent so much time with. I know I speak for tons of classmates when I say, Dennis you have done such a selfless job keeping us all informed and up to date on EVERYONE! I appreciate every little thing you do and will continue to do. You are truly loved and know from the bottom of my heart I care and know I am a better person because I know there are people in this world who CARE!!! (like Dennis DuPriest) Love you!” (1971)

“Don't let the whiners get you down! I appreciate what you do for all Mustangs! Have a Great Day!” (1970)

“DO NOT REMOVE ME FROM YOUR MAILING LIST. Although your mail sometimes contains information that isn't good news, I am grateful to you for the time and effort that you take to relay the news to us. I know it must be hard to have to deliver some of the news to us that you do. I am sorry the person that wrote to you asking to be removed from your mailing list was such jerk and informed you in such a manner, using "other Jay students" as corroborating evidence that others don't like you sending them mail. Too bad they didn't have the huevos to send you an email themselves. As for the "clique" - I was not part of "the clique" or a "click". I understand not wanting to get certain email all the time. I have a solution though. DELETE THE EMAIL YOU DON'T WANT TO READ ! Heck, I delete email from my own father because I don't want to read his not-so-funny jokes all the time. I open the mail, if its a joke, I delete it. I don't hurt his feelings. Dennis, I am sure I am not alone when I say I am grateful to you. I am sure most of the people you send mail to are grateful and SCREW THE REST !!! Sorry, just a bit upset at the rudeness of a handful.” (1970)

“Dennis, Just wanted to let you know I appreciate your e-mails and all the news of Jay classmates. You are a good and kind person. Don’t let a few people bring you down. Stay healthy and keep up the walking. Keep smiling and doing your good work.” (1977)

“Dennis, like we’re doing for Coach Luna, perhaps we should pray for this guy who wrote the email. Just concentrate on your health bro’. He’s just like Hillary Clinton, always knocking something. Keep up the good work. By the way, I liked your Michael Savage response to him!!” (1971)

"Hang in there, Dennis. Majority rules." (1970)

“Dennis, Remind "Mr. Without a Life” that he/she can choose not to read his/her own email. That will solve his problem. He can also limit receipt of any email with his/her email browser. He doesn’t have to read your e-mail if he doesn’t want to, Ultra Maroon (as Bugs would say)! Apparently this person prefers to whine about the remainder of the world who actually enjoys life and making contact with the most influential people of that period of our lives. I didn’t graduate in your class (mine, ‘72) and it is only expected that your group of friends (clique) is different than mine. If Mr. “Whiny Without a Life” took time to participate, he would realize that your website and effort is merely a portal of contact to many people who lead to further contact with others. Through your diligent efforts I was fortunate enough to learn about the 2005 John Jay Reunion. At that reunion I reunited with at least 20 or 30 friends and comrades in crime. Most of them I hadn't seen in 30 years. Only with the grace of God and your portal could that have come about. Through your contacts I have remained in touch with some of the most important and dearest friends I have ever known. And you weren't even in my clique, dude!!!! I agree with you, Dennis. Mr./Ms. “Whiny without a Spine or Life” should immediately be deleted from all correspondence. Unappreciative idiots like that don’t deserve your or my time. Obviously a Holmes grad!!! DELETE THEM! Thanks for all you are, dude. And I am happy to see you back in the saddle again after your stay in the nurse's stables. You will remain in my prayers.” (1972)

“Dennis: Although I graduated in 1977, I still read the e-mails you send about John Jay graduates because they are my "brothers and sisters" who also benefited from attending a great high school. The person who had a problem with getting your e-mails, obviously had a problem with getting along with his/her fellow classmates back then, as well as, now. Talk about sour grapes! You can tell he/she is one unhappy person. Keep up the great work and I am glad to hear that you are recovering very well from your ordeal.” (1977)

“Dennis.....in this world there will always be those who get upset with you. Hey, you can't please everyone and now that I am as old as dirt, I mostly just try to please myself and God. Everyone else is on their own. I personally didn't know ALL of these people, nor did they all know me, but what binds us together is the fact that we are all Mustangs. And that is true, regardless of class or clique. It is nice to know that you maintain a place where we all can go and find out about people we knew.... loved.... hated....married...divorced....grew up with..... or just jealous of. Do not let anyone upset you on your road to recovery. You must concentrate on getting well, because I expect to see you at the next reunion. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, ‘Thanks for keeping the "flame" alive.” (1969)

“Dennis, please keep the e-mails coming. This is the only way that some of us can communicate and get updates of what is happening at home. The person that wrote that email must not have had much of a life when at Jay. ‘Keep the Flame Burning’ and don’t blow a gasket over this type of stuff.” (1972)

“Dennis, You know what, p**s on them, and the horse they rode in on. I'll guarantee you that the large majority of your Class of '70 classmates look forward to the classmate news we receive. You put a lot of time and effort and money into doing this, and you're right, you don't need this crap. I've said it before and I'll say it again, "You're the man" when it comes to keeping us informed about our classmates! In my humble opinion, you send out news as you receive it. If that means news about "popular" classmates or "not popular" classmates, you don't discriminate. Thanks for all that you do, my friend!!!!” (1970)

“Dennis, don't’ sweat the small stuff. Some people just don’t get it. YOU are the MAN! If it wasn’t for you, I would have never been able to contact any classmates from 30 years ago. Thank you, Bro’. Keep on truckin’.” (1976)

“Dennis- I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate all that you do! Although I only attended Jay in the first year and do not believe I ever met you while I was there, you have always made me feel special and a part of the group. Consider that whoever sent you the e-mail requesting to be removed was having a very bad day and decided to take it out on you for some reason. I often get e-mails like that in business and even from a prayer loop. They do sting, but I try to remember that others do like me! I'm praying for you that you are getting healthier every day. You don't need ANY stress so repeat after me, "WHATEVER!!!" Love ya'’”. (1970)

“Dennis, this is one email out of how many people? I wouldn't have given this person the time of day nor even sent the email you sent. Why waste your time? Why get your blood pressure up? I would have responded with "Gladly!" and removed this individual quickly. Just ignore that type of naiveté! You have provided all of us with a vehicle to stay in touch with what happens in our lives....pay no attention to someone that has nothing else to do but ridicule you and put you down! Ignorance to the ‘n-th’ degree! Please! Love.” (1969)

“Dennis, don't allow people to get to you. Remember that you need to take care of yourself and avoid stress. Kind of funny in a way though. They must have wanted to be "in" the clique if they joined the list in the first place. Some people will never fit in. Nor will they ever be happy. Keep doing the great job that you do!” (1977)

“Atta’ boy, Dennis...breathe deeply and relax. Stoneheads like that aren't worth trouble or grief. If they had anything exciting to relate, I am sure you would have posted it. I am sure they didn't have anything interesting happen in English 1, 2 or 3, to say the least. Excuses are tools of the incompetence which builds monuments of nothingness to those who specialize in them"...sound like someone you know?” (1971)

“Dear Dennis~ I am sorry about that unfortunate e-mail you received! I for one enjoy the e-mails you send. I was not a member of any clique during our days at Jay. I do not understand the preoccupation with cliques 35 years later. We are all, hopefully, nicer people who have out grown the very normal "all about me" stuff from high school! Having had the blessing of two daughters, I am very familiar with this phenomenon! LOL! Thank you for all that you do to keep us connected! You have been constantly been in my prayers...I just do not know what to say...I am very happy that you seem to be on the road to recovery! I am looking happy news in lives of my friends and family! Life is too short to dwell on the trivial things Take care of yourself! We have more reunions to attend!” (1970)

“Dennis, whoever ‘he’ is -- He was jealous of you in high school and he is jealous of you now. You are loved and appreciated. Always remember that!” (1975)

“Hey Dennis, what crap! Obviously someone who at the age of at least 50, is still a child. The person that who wrote that is an ass! Send them my email address and i will be glad to discuss it with them. That s**t don't fly in this town. You keep it up, dude. You da man!” (1971)

“Calm down Dennis, think about your health. I am sure that most of us love what you are doing. Keep up the good work and don't let a few get you down.” (1977)

“Please don't remove my email address from all the good news and love you spread around. Keep up the good work on your weight loss! I work out at Curves several times a week here in Houston. Not for a weight reason, but I've had a heart dysfunction since I was 19 and exercise keeps it in a regular rhythm without taking so much medication. Once you get used to working out regularly and you know it's for a very good reason, it doesn't seem so difficult to keep it up! I'll keep you and our Mustang family in my prayers!” (1972)

“Dennis, This is why I LOVE to receive email from you...you are the pipeline to everyone and to all news, good and bad. WE are all linked to each other. Coach Luna is a special man who means a lot to many of us. I will keep him in my prayers and continue to pray for you, your health and all the good you do. Never mind the "nay-sayers". Shame on them! Keep up the wonderful work! By the way, we still need to do the lunch thing.” (1972)

“Hey Dennis, We love you. Please do not let one person spoil your day. Hope you're feeling much better.” (1971)

“Dennis, I don't care what anybody says about your emails. They are refreshing and I love getting them. The majority of my other e-mails are "crap." Just "stuff" that I don't even care to read. Please keep me in the loop. I appreciate everything you do. Just taking the time to keep us "ALL" informed shows what a good person you are. Warmest regards to you!!!!” (1978)

“Dennis, I did not graduate from John Jay until 1982. I do not personally know any of the people that you tell us about, but I like to hear about them. I don't care what year I graduated, and who I personally know and don't know, I feel like we are all a big family that sticks together and takes care of their own. I was supposed to go to the big reunion this past summer. I was working for Ms. Peggy Carnahan at Our Lady of the Lake and got stubborn and told her that the reunion was for OLD people so I did not go. Anyway, she bought me a coffee mug and I treasure that thing. I appreciate what you do and enjoy all of the news. Keep up the good work. I was in the Class of 1982. Proud sister and daughter of fellow Jay graduates, including my mom, my sister in 1973, my brother in 1974 and my other brother in 1980. We are all proud to be grads of Jay and have all been able to move on to do good things because of the education we received there.” (1982)

“Dennis, Hi! Please, do not remove me from your list, I enjoy receiving whatever you send, even if I don't know some of these people, it's interesting to read about former Jay grads! It was really great to see you the other day and I hope you are getting better with every day that passes! Blessings to you.” (1983)

Hi Dennis. You're too good for people like that. I don't believe the part about other Jay people feeling the same way. People like that hide behind anonymous screens of unnamed people. Good riddance to people like that who don't have real love in their hearts. They probably don't even know what real love is.” (1971)

“Dennis, I have not been able to participate in the emails/reunions due to a busy schedule. However, I must say that I look forward to hearing the updates and appreciate the work you put into keeping this thing alive. I know the time it takes to update the web page and send out e-mails to keep all of us little people up to date! I wish you well on your recovery and remind you that stress is NOT a good thing for you at this time! Ya' know, I don't remember any "English" students, when I was at Jay ("70), who would know the Anglicized spelling! But hey .... Jay students have always managed to surprise me! Keep the faith, keep your health, and keep your humor.” (1970)

“Dear Dennis, I regret that some of our former school/class mates are so anal. As you know, I was never a member of the various cliques either, and even though they appear to be just as strong today as they were when we were in school, I do not hold it against them. I remember I asked you to print my e-mail address and to let my former class mates know that they could write me. You did send out my request and to this date you are the only person to have responded with a personal e-mail. That's OK though, They have found an environment in which they feel secure. They may never be friends but they are my class mates and I do like to be kept advised. For the person[s] who do not like hearing only about the members of the clique sets maybe they they and their friends should write short articles about themselves and submit them for addition to the website and group mailings. You cannot give an update on a classmate if you do not have any information about them.” (1970)

“Give 'em hell , Dennis and KEEP ME ON the mailing list! Thanks for all you do!” (1972)

“Hello Dennis, I only went to John Jay one year - my senior year. I don't know many of whom you write, but I still like reading about folks from John Jay. I wouldn't take what this one person writes so personally. From all I've read, you are thought of quite highly and most seem to appreciate your efforts. For those who don't, so be it. Life is short - as you have recently learned the hard way. Seems sad to me that some would carry high school resentments for so many years. Let this one go by. Peace, good buddy.” (1969)

“Dennis...Don't let a HUGE A**HOLE stop you from what you have been doing for us. Let that s**t go. No matter what group we hung out with, we all still went to the same school....Just let it go.” (1973)

“Dennis, Don't let the few who haven't dumped their high school baggage in the last 36 years trouble you! I'm always pleased to get news, even though it's almost never about me or my closest JJHS friends. As the "Keeper of the Flame," you have been and continue to be a tremendous blessing to the vast majority of us Mustangs, trust me. The disgruntled soul you heard from speaks for almost nobody but himself. Don't give it a second thought. I hope your exercise program/rehab is going well, and you're continuing to shed those pounds. I know exercise can be dull as a post, but at our age, we have no choice. I'm looking for you to be out on the dance floor at the next shindig!” (1972)

“It’s his loss, Dennis! You don't hear from me often, but I read each of your e-mails and I for one appreciate being connected with the news from my alma mater. I hope your recovery is going well. You have been in our thoughts and prayers. Take care and don't let that person get you down, you don't need that crap right now for sure!! (1977)

“Hey Dennis, Don't get your skivvies in a wad over that. Remember, you are still recovering. Some people just don't appreciate anything. They are in the minority. Just keep doing what you do.” (1972)

“Dennis, What a shame that person is stupid enough to be so cruel. I hope this won't cause you to have a sour taste. As far as I am concerned, YOU are the Keeper of the Flame and I happen to enjoy that flame burning for so many years. As we've all traveled near & far in the last 37 years you kept us all in touch. Thank You for every ounce of effort "you" and Danny and anyone else has put forth over the years to keep us all together. We mean everything we say. People like you make the world a better place.” (1969 & 1970)

“Dennis, I agree with you that you don't need that kind of garbage. But hey, consider the source and don't let it get to you. Most of us appreciate what you put into the e-mails, website, etc.!” (1970)

“How did these ungrateful SOBs get on your email list in the first place? One good thing about getting that email, is it gave your heart a workout and got it to pumping. That's good so long as you let it slow back down and get a proper rest. Don't get upset. Tell the others that in order to print the news you have to have the news. I guess if they want to know something and think it is worth sharing, they will send it to you. There is an old expression, I am not sure the exact wording but it goes something like this, F**k off, dude." I think that is close, but maybe it is, "screw it if you can't take a joke,"   Good luck, Keeper of what Flame is left.” (1969)

“Take it easy, Dennis. The world is full of idiots, or maybe he forgot to take his medication. He's not worth blowing a fuse over.” (1970)

“Yo’, Dennis, I just read your last e-mail. You are dealing with people. Don't blow a gasket--it is not really good for the heart. When dealing with people sometimes you need to take a deep breath, count to ten, and exhale (repeat as necessary). What happened to "Love is all around?" Trust me...it is not worth the aggravation.” (1971)

“Dear Dennis: I’m so sorry that you were the recipient of an ungrateful and harsh message from a former classmate. As I see it, you graciously report any news sent to you from anyone connected with John Jay. Apparently, this former classmate is still nursing some kind of resentment towards various John Jay alumni and takes exception to any news about said alumni. While I didn’t graduate from Jay…(would have in 1970 had I not moved)…I appreciate hearing about former friends and knowing that you are the ‘go to’ person if anyone wants to reconnect with a former classmate. I encourage you to continue to be the ‘Keeper of the Flame’ and disregard the words from those who have not dealt with issues from their high school days…all I would say to them is…’get over it, guys!!” (1970)

“Don't let it get to you, Dennis. I personally think you are doing an outstanding (and thankless) job. They were not thinking of the time and effort that you have devoted to all of this. On behalf of the numerous other JJ grads that are aware of your efforts...I thank you.” (1973)

“Now, Dennis... Try not to let this stuff bother you. Keep your cool, dude! Don't stress yourself, over one insignificant comment, over how many years now? You don't need approval from everyone! There's still lots of us out here that appreciate all you do. I never considered myself part of any "clique.” I’m just a friend from school.” (1970)

“Hey Dennis, don't let the bastards get you down. Just remember you can't please everyone no matter how hard you try, so don't worry about it. You cannot possibly make everyone that visits the site happy or personally write about everyone routinely, so just f**k 'em. Pardon my French, but I know something about this. I have personally written to several people on the site and wrote personable letters that I know did nothing to offend them or whatever, but I have never heard back from them. I wrote one person who I had been good friends with in high school, had several classes with her, went to her house a lot, went shopping with her, visited her at work, and helped her cope with her father. Her reply "Yes, I remember you," as the total of her response just didn't seem the type of response I had expected. But I don't let it bother me. I have done nothing to offend her (or others) so if they choose not to take my extended hand when it is offered to them, then I feel this is their choice and I cannot change that. So, anyway, you have to remember that many people did not have the high school memories we had and do not look back on those years as fondly as we do. I suspect this may be the case. Some people are still in that "comparison" stage- where we judge our lives by how we stood in high school versus how we are doing now. I remember talking with people out in the Jay parking lot that had come to the school, but were reluctant to go into the cafeteria and "answer" to their friends. Sad but true. My younger sister almost had to be forced to come, if not for my other sister and myself coaxing her, she absolutely would not have come!! I have always felt you were very impartial and very supportive of anyone and everyone that wrote to you. Where these people see what they see I do not know. Hey, if it were about "clicks", they wouldn't have been on the e-mail list to begin with. So, as your friend and compadre my suggestion is to cool out, have a beer. Yeah, screw your doctor's advice for a day, and keep on keeping on." (1971)

“Dennis, who in the world wrote that?” (1972)

“Good Sunday afternoon, Dennis...This makes me very sad to hear people talking to you this way. You are my rock...my life line...my all...you keep the "Mustang Blue" running hot within my soul. I don't say much...but I am in the back ground cheering for you, setting up or decorating tables at the reunions, or what ever else you need me to do. I am very proud and honored to be on your mailing list. I read every word you send out. Grateful thanks.” (1973)

“Dennis, it's not good to keep your emotions in like that- you should express yourself. Seriously, I may not participate much, but i do enjoy getting the news. i appreciate the service you do, and I'm sure there are others who do as well. I wish “Mr. Click” was better behaved. I just don't understand why some people can't make a simple request without being nasty about it.” (1973)

“You are awesome... keep those e-mails coming! You are the only one that spends his time keeping us informed. Anyway... 35 years ago is a long time! We have all grown up (at least some of us)... and all of our groups have gone away too. Whoever this individual is... good bye! He or she doesn't deserve to know what is going on! Dennis... I don't know about anyone else, but I feel that you keep us young and alive! Your e-mails keep us challenged to see how everyone has succeeded as live goes on and keeps us all desired to do better! Don't listen to these individuals... YOU ARE THE BEST! Also... glad to hear you are doing better and continue to get healthy, buddy!” (1970)

“Dennis, the only people who don't have somebody mad at them are people who aren't doing anything.” (Former John Jay teacher, 1969--)

“Hey, Dennis... DON’T remove my friggin’ name from your list, LMAO. Some people are so petty, even after all these years. Now, calm down and don't go having a heart attack over this crap. At least you had the common decency not to mention the writer by name. CLIQUE?? Oh, that's the sound of being removed from your mailing list or is it CLICK....whatever its all the same result! Have a good day, buddy.” (1970)

“GO, DENNIS!!!!!! Dear Dennis, I was thrilled to read all the support that came your way. John Jay was my fourth high school and it was an adjustment but little by little I felt I came to belong. What counts is now. I don't think I was ever in a "clique" and you print everything I send you so now I feel very much a part of Jay. This person is nuts! Glad you're doing better. I couldn't get along without you now! Cheers” (1971)

“Just delete the f**ker and move on.” (1973)

“Dennis, My dad had some goofy Latin saying “Illigete non carborundim”. Don’t even try to look it up, but what it was supposed to mean was, “Don’t let the Little Bastards Grind Ya'”. Keep the faith, you have lots of loyal readers for your e-mails and website.” (1971)

“Dennis, You keep us informed and I thank you for it. You are providing a service. Take a deep breath and keep up the good work. Besides, you are hopefully recovering well and do not need the stress of others insensitivity. Take care.” (1969)

“Hi Dennis, I really don't like name calling but this person sounds like they belong to the prique clique. Anyway, please don't stress out over somebody else's own problems. You mean so much to so many of us Mustangs that I can't believe anyone would be that way to you unless they were just having a bad day themselves. Whatever the case it was uncalled for and I hope you can still have a good day. I love you and all you do.” (1970)

“Dennis, I am glad, over the years, to get "a little" humanity in my life. Hearing about our "old" classmates is a great way. I am glad to stay on your email list. Hope you are doing well.” (1970)

“We are so sorry that there are stupid people out there! Your just keep up the good work! It’s got to be a job and a half keeping up with all of this. Classmates need to email you things that they want to share with the rest of their classmates. And another thing, if this is a so called "CLIQUE" thing....why doesn't this person send in his news?? Whose fault is that? NOT YOURS, Dennis, THAT’S HIS OWN FAULT! If, we don't inform you, how are you suppose to share this with everyone? Dennis, you just keep the Flame burning on!” (1970 & 1975)

“Dennis – The older I get the wiser I seem to become. I have learned that there are many people in this world that are unappreciative of the efforts of others. I myself and my sister (1972) and my brother in law (1969) not to mention the group of silent people who appreciates what you do and that log in to your site each day, think you do a wonderful job on keeping us involved with our classmates. Please. don’t let a very tiny minority ruin your efforts to a wonderful site. You are appreciated and loved by a large amount of people. It just tore my heart apart when I found out about you health. Don’t let the tiny bother the mighty as you don’t need the extra stress. Keep the faith and remember, we love you. Oh, and another thing – I bet this person has never been involved in any activities with our reunions.” (1971)

“To whoever wrote that e-mail to Dennis.... Get a life. If you want to participate, we'll include you, too. Dennis talks about the people who actually interact with each other, who keep in touch, and that's all. We outgrew "clicks" [sic] decades ago. Geesh. Dennis, don't let those kind of people get to you. We all (and I'm sure I speak for the VAST majority) love ya'!” (1971)

“Dennis, I just rejoice every day I wake up. It is good to hear about old friends and even some people who may not have exactly been friends. Just keep plugging away my friend. You can only pass on the information that gets to you. It would seem that if they had news to share they would pass it on as well. As we both know, life is too short for this kinda' crap. We should be grateful for the people who cross our paths and bless us, even if only for a moment. I remember walking into a Sophomore English class at UT and nearly running over Claire Neyland. We did not hang out with the same "clique" at Jay but sat next to each other for the whole semester. It was just good to have someone that identified with where you came from. Maybe there are old wounds here we don't know about. You just keep being who you are and things will be all right. God Bless You and Keep You.” (1970)

“With all you have done and continue to do in keeping us all informed you definitely do not need nor do you deserve such attitude. I am sure that you can only post information received since you have never professed to be a psychic. "Git ‘em , Daddy!" I am glad to hear you are getting stronger every day, just don't let those fools cause you to blow another gasket. With gratitude for all your hard work.” (1970)

“Hey Dennis, Never take me off your e-mail list! I think you're the greatest. I always brag to people about your web site and explain that it isn't just a school information site, it's about friends and family. What a chore it must be to take all the information people send to you and have you spread the word. I say a "chore" (for most of us), but you do it all out of love. Keep up the fantastic job you are doing and keep us smiling from the memories. Take a deep breath and smell the flowers!” (1972)

“Dennis, Calm down, bro’. There’s ALWAYS a few a**holes. We’re not gonna' let them ruin the party. “The road goes on forever and the party never ends.” Joe Ely (or maybe Robert Earl Keen?) Love is STILL all around!” (1971)

“Dennis, This amazes me. Sounds like someone is having a BAD day. Don't let it get to you. I enjoy the e-mails. Just let them roll off your back, and thank you for keeping me informed. You have a great day. And just get a good laugh out of it. GOOD FOR THE HEART!” (1972)

“Dear Dennis, I am very sorry that someone felt that they had to be so rude to you. It will be their loss. As for me, I am very grateful for all that you do to help keep us informed. If that is how they feel, we don't need them in our family. Love is all around, now.” (1971)

“Hey, Dennis, hope all is well with you and you are feeling better, don't get upset, some people don't know a good thing when they see it, I thank God for you and helping me keep up to date with my classmates, if it weren't for those guys & gals in your "click", (ha ha) we wouldn't know who is doing what. Don't worry, we all love you and don't let this bother you, you don't need that right now.” (1969)

“Hi Dennis- I'm a '74 graduate and met you at a recent reunion about (3-4 years ago). I've enjoyed all your e-mails and updates. You are such a loyal mustang. Keep up the good work. I sincerely hope that your health continues to improve each day. It sounds like you are doing all the right things. You are in my prayers. I would have written earlier to give you my support, but I have recently (last 7 weeks) lost my mom (12/12), grandmother (1/5) and father (1/30) -all to pneumonia. It has been a very difficult time for me and my immediate family. We've had lots of loving support from friends, neighbors, and family members. Here's hoping for a better tomorrow.” (1974)

"Thanks Dennis for all you do. You're an inspiration to us all. Next time I'm in San Antonio, I would like to stop in and say hi. I never knew you and I graduated in ' 73, but I appreciate what you are doing." (1973)

"Keep up the good work, Dennis. Take him off your e-mail list and don't think twice about what he wrote. There are too many of us who enjoy reading what you put out." (1975)

"Dennis, I sure hate to see you have to endure that crap too. I volunteer for different organizations and sometime I feel like it isn't worth the effort. You try to make the world a better place and people just s**t on you. Keep up the good work." (1970)

"Hi there! Whoa, Dennis, nobody needs that kind of crap from someone. I appreciate everything you have ever done for us and I hope to always hear from you and whoever else wants to e-mail me from our class. Don't let the one ruin it for us all. He says there are more? Don't be sooo sure. We love you, appreciate you and pray for you and your pleasant ways of keeping us up with 1970 graduating class." (1970)

"Dearest Dennis: As a 1970 graduate of John Jay High School, I am always thrilled when I see an e-mail from you. It is so sad that, in today's time, there are those who do not appreciate all the time and effort you put in to this "job" you have chosen to take on. People do not realize how very special it is to have someone such as yourself to keep the rest of us who are caught in the "rat race" up to date. I, as are many other Mustangs, am so grateful to you. To the person who wrote the e-mail, the time will come when you regret what you have said. Thanks, Dennis. Please keep it up - and continue to get better!!" (1970)

"Dear Dennis, I did not have my internet server for several months and got it back today. First thing I did was check my emails and Oh my gosh had they piled up. When I opened yours, I had to fight the tears. I did not know you had suffered heart failure. I am sorry dear friend. It goes to show I should pick up the ----- phone more and just call you. I am so glad and relieved to hear you are recovering. I also read the emails about the individual who got you so upset. Please Dennis, after all these years of keeping us all in the know, DO NOT let something like that upset you. I have never seen such committment and dedication from anyone I have ever met like you give to all of us. It is incredible!! You are incredible!!<> I love you. Please forgive me for not keeping in touch. Take care dear friend.Love you."

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